After your baby is born, you will visit the pediatrician often. In the first year, your baby will have seven well visits. Studies show that first time parents may visit their child’s pediatrician up to sixteen times before baby’s first birthday.
Your child’s doctor plays an important role in their life. Therefore, you’ll need to find one that is a good fit for the parents and the child. It can be a challenge to find a pediatrician that is right for your family. Here are some tips to get you started on your search:
1. Start with recommendations
As a first time parent, or a family that has just relocated, it is hard to know where to begin your search for a pediatrician. “I asked other moms for recommendation. It’s a great way to see what names came up repeatedly,” says Jill Miller, a mom from Cedar Rapids, IA. Stacy Cook, a nurse and mom of three suggests asking your OB/GYN for a recommendation. “I figured if they were good enough for my doctor’s kids then they were good enough for mine,” Cook says.
Some parents, like Nathan and Wendy Hladky of Overland Park, KS, chose the same primary care doctor for the whole family. “All four of us use the same doctor. It is super convenient,” says Nathan.
Another great way to narrow your search in a new area is to call the local NICU and ask the nurses whom they would recommend. “The nurses are more likely to give unbiased feedback,” says Rodganna Avery, mom of three.
2. Cover the basics
First you must compare your list of candidates with your insurance policy. “Find out which providers are in your network; then start looking for reviews of those doctors online. Also check that the American Board of Pediatrics certifies the doctor. This means the doctor has passed a specialized test in pediatrics. If you choose a family doctor, ask if the doctor is certified in the American Board of Family Medicine. Family doctors are trained to treat patients of all ages, including children, but they do not have a specialty in pediatrics.
Next consider the basic office information that can be found online or with a quick phone call. What are the office hours? Do they have walk in hours? Will the doctor visit the hospital where you will deliver your baby? What hospital will your child be admitted to if needed? Is the office location convenient to your home, work, school, and daycare? Take these things into consideration as you narrow down your list.
3. Visit the office
Determine if you feel comfortable in the pediatrician’s office by taking a tour. Ask if they have times available for potential patients to come and visit the office or if you would need to make an appointment and ask if you can interview the doctor at the same time. Remember to ask if there is a charge for visiting. Verify with your insurance company to see if the cost would be covered or if you would be responsible for the fees.
When visiting the office be aware of what the overall environment feels like. Take into consideration if the office staff is courteous, polite, and willing to help. Is the office clean and inviting? Was parking convenient? Do they have separate sick and well waiting areas? Take all of these things into consideration in your decision. If you plan to visit more than one office, be sure to take notes for later consideration.
4. Ask some questions
Start by asking about how sick appointments work. How long would it take for a sick child to be seen? Is there a good chance the child will be seen by his own doctor? Do you have similar views on health and wellness such as circumcision, breastfeeding, and immunizations? It is also important to consider what your preferences are. Do you want a doctor who offers choices and lets you decide which one works best for you? Or would you be more comfortable with one who gives a lot of directions? Overall, does the doctor seem genuinely interested in your child or does he seem distracted or rushed? Take your overall impression into account when making your decision.
5. Consider the doctor’s bedside manner
How the doctor interacts with your child will have a lot of impact on the decision to choose a pediatrician. Do you feel comfortable around the doctor? Does your child? Are they willing to take the time to listen to your questions and concerns? A good beside manner can go along way in making you and your child feel comfortable.
While it’s natural to worry about the long-term results of your parenting decisions, keep in mind that your choice in a pediatrician doesn’t have to be permanent. The parent’s goal is the same as the pediatrician: a happy and healthy child. If you don’t feel that your pediatrician shares this goal, it might be time to look for a one who does.
Sidebar:
When is it time to find a new pediatrician?
– If your child cries the whole time, that alone, is not cause to switch. However, if the doctor doesn’t seem to care or make an effort to soothe your child, you may have a problem.
– If you’re unclear why a certain medication is prescribed or why a test is done.
– If you can’t come to an agreement, or at least a middle ground, on most issues.
– If the location and hours are too inconvenient for your family.
– If the doctor often seems inaccessible when your child is sick.
– If the doctor is making you feel bad or consistently reproaching you for parenting choices.
– If you feel the doctor is not listening to your concerns.
Before switching, discuss your concerns with the doctor. If a compromise cannot be made, it’s time to look elsewhere. Your child’s health is top priority.
